Sometimes Decisions are Made for You

Yesterday I went to inquire about switching the wedding ceremony location...  As I suspected long ago, it isn't possible to have the ceremony in the enclosed "yard" of the Point Fermin Lighthouse (or at least it isn't possible to get approval to do so via the LA City Parks and Rec- as they don't operate the Lighthouse).

If I want a Lighthouse wedding, the best LA City Parks can offer is the huge tree just east of the Lighthouse.  The tree is beautiful, and I discovered something about it months ago that makes it especially cool:  among the many initials and things that have been carved into the trunk of the tree is a large heart with R+S in the center.  Awesome!  I showed it to R, but we both agree that if we can't get married at the Lighthouse, we'd rather stick with the Bell.  So that's that!  All my angst of a few days ago was for naught. 

I still find myself thinking about the lace dress, but I should probably just let it go.  Can you tell that I have commitment issues?  It's amazing that I'm actually getting married!  I second guess everything.