Thursday, October 29, 2009

Our House

I'm a wee bit tired of hearing myself blather on about wedding stuff, so this morning I think I'll devote some attention to my house!

It is, afterall, my true love. Some people can contentedly spend a lifetime in an apartment, on a boat, or touring the country in an RV... While the latter two lifestyles have a certain appeal and a definite coolness factor, they don't begin to inspire the daydreams or excitement in me of having a house. It is something I have hungered for always, and a love affair that began in childhood.

I was born at and lived in the same house until I was 16, so I grew up with a strong sense of connection to it. It was such a huge part of my identity that at times I didn't know where the house left off and I began. When that house was sold, my sense of loss was immediate and profound. Although I have lived in other homes since then, I haven't felt that sense of rootedness or the joy and awe that this is mine, my home!, again until now.

Before moving into our home a year and a half ago, R and I lived in a condo. I tackled more than a few home improvement projects and had fun living there, but the lack of space and constant noise from inconsiderate neighbors began to really grate on each of us.

A real estate website junkie, I was ever on the lookout for the perfect house. So many times I came across properties and grew excited at the possibilities, envisioning a future, but the stars were never aligned. Finally, everything came together.

Here is a description of our "fixer upper", which I've taken from the Realtor's website:

"$30K Price Reduction!!! Diamond in the rough! This is a FIXER and has been rental for years. Newer hot water heater, newer forced heater, newer dual pane windows. Property being sold "AS IS". No termite or Repairs will be done. Huge lot size (11,700 sq.ft.) and room to add on and enjoy view. Attached two car garage and updated large concrete/brick driveway. This is not a distress sale, just a motivated out of state seller. Listing Agent has recent home inspection and Termite report on file for interested buyer to review. Buyer is encouraged to get their own inspections. Home has good bones just needs some cosmetic and TLC.
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As you can see from the picture, the house looked pretty good from the outside. You can't see the garage door, however, which was made of wood, painted an icky shade of blue, and falling apart! Replacing that was one of the first improvements we made. Because I had worked in "Millworks" at the Home Depot, I had my heart set on a Martin garage door (top of the line in quality and safety features), so that's what we got- a basic Martin door with an ultra-quiet belt drive opener. I love it!

Here's an early picture of the kitchen, and yes, it was just as bad (if not worse!) in person:

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

What the F---?!

Pardon the seemingly potty-mouthed blog title... It's not what you think! Today I'm writing about fonts. Yep, that all important signature that sets the tone for a wedding invitation. A font can say, "I'm beautiful and elegant, and my wedding will dazzle you!", or, "This is going to be a lighthearted, whimsy-filled affair that you simply don't want to miss!"

After spending WAY too many hours on myfonts.com, saving fonts to WAY too may albums, and culling my list by removing fonts then adding the same ones back again (smart, eh?) , I've finally found the one. The one I'm going to use for the invitations, anyway. After purchasing the unique and fun Veloute, I changed my mind about it-- too busy. So yesterday I settled on Sloop. I like it. It's very "sloopy" (One of my personal albums is in fact named "sloopy", and another one "swashy").

I decided to go with a sloopy font instead of a swashy one because the wedding will be ocean themed, and one of my hand-drawn invitation concepts has ocean waves. Sloop just goes. It's apparently named for a type of sailboat, and it's very sleek, leaning forward as if cutting through choppy waves. It doesn't have a lot of embellishment (swashes). That's ok-- as pretty as those fonts are, they aren't me.

Yesterday was R's birthday. He's 15 years older than I am, but I told him he doesn't look a day over 37, and it's true. He takes very good care of himself. After work I stopped at Target for a few grocery items and a card, and guess what I found?! Cute imprintable wedding invitations, originally approx. $20 for a box of 25, on clearance for less than $5 each! What an amazing deal! So I rounded up all four remaining boxes. The wedding is going to be small (probably less than 50 people), but I'm a hoarder by nature so I couldn't leave the extras behind. Nevermind that the invites are the wrong color, the wrong theme (they have flowers on them), and not the style I had in mind. For good measure, I also grabbed all the clearance bridal shower invitations and wedding themed thank-you cards. Please note, these were also the wrong color and something I wouldn't have EVER chosen at full retail price. Insanity! I'll probably end up returning everything.

Thursday, October 22, 2009

At Work

So, I'm at work, and it's 2:00 am, which means that I have some free time. so I figured I'd enumerate some of my projects that I want to finish (or at least talk/write about).

Here is a sampling of my unfinished wedding projects:

1) invitations
2) jewelry
3) flower girl dress and ring bearer's pillow
4) new straps/ modified bodice for my gown
5) centerpieces for the reception

These are my main house projects (pretty much on hold for wedding stuff, as is everything else):

1) Backyard landscaping
2) Kitchen & Bathrooms
3) Millwork (new doors & moulding)

Then of course, there's the ongoing "self improvement" project-- during the last 6 months of working nights, I've gained 25 lbs (yes, 25! Yikes). I'd like to do some damage control before the wedding if possible. In addition to preserving my health and improving my appearance, I'd like to advance in my career, but that's a whole **other** project that I don't want to get into right now!

Wedding stuff is FUN to obsess about, so I'll probably spend the most time writing about this for now. Weight gain? Not so fun. Painting the house? Not so fun to write about.

Wedding invitations are very much on my mind right now. This is something I want to do myself, rather than pay someone. A few reasons:
-Invites are an excellent outlet for creativity!
-Nice invitations are $$$- crazy!
-Every wedding is one of a kind, so why use a mass-produced, impersonal product to woo guests?

That last point is kind of funny- do I really have to "woo" my guests? Are people so fickle that they need to be enticed, and is a scrap of paper in the mail sufficient to do the trick? No, people are not that fickle, but I do believe in the power of a nice piece of mail! I love getting things in the mail. Never underestimate the power of a shiny (or pretty) object. Humans seem to be wired for it. Remember the coke can in the movie, "The Gods Must Be Crazy"? Oh, and "A thing of beauty is a joy forever", right? With my invitations, I'm not aiming for forever... I just want guests to hang onto them long enough to remember to attend. An exalted position on the refrigerator would be nice. I personally am offended by ugly and unwanted mail (think pizza coupons, AARP offers at age 34, bills...). What an insult! What a waste of trees!

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Getting the Party Started

Aaaarrghh! That's a word, right?! So, here I am, asking myself, "Why am I joining the blogging masses? What do I have to offer that isn't already being said?" Really, there is nothing new under the sun. But hey, I feel the need to write for myself if for no other reason, so here goes! Besides, I joined Facebook and I'm not thrilled about it!

Ok, why am I calling this sucker "My Unfinished Project"? I chose that slick title because I think that life (or at least MY life) can be distilled to that sentiment. It's an unfinished project, filled to overflowing with countless unfinished projects, some worthwhile, some less so.

My preoccupations right now include my fixer upper house that my fiancee and I moved into 1 1/2 years ago, and my impending wedding (5 months and counting!). The latter especially has become an all-consuming obsession and escape from reality. What will I do with myself once there is no more wedding planning? Aaah, here's a thought- I'll blog! Ha ha ha!